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Article #129: Overcoming Fear in a Self-Defense Situation

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How do you overcome fear in a attacker in an attempt to intimidate you
self-defense situation? Basically you would help.
don't, you learn to use the fear instead. Now you put it in your mind that your
Making it a tool that you shape not partner is not your partner. He's a
allowing fear to control you. All fine stranger that intends on doing you harm,
and dandy, but how do you go about mugging you, raping, beating you
learning how to use fear? senseless and unless you defend yourself
Let's examine what fear is. Fear is an and hit this !@#$ just as hard as you can
emotional response to stimuli either and don't get hit yourself that's just
eternal or internal. Fear has certain what's going to happen.
physiological responses. Start with a prearranged attack and
Increased heart rate counter-attack, but, put it out of your
Increased respiration mind that you actually know what's going
Introduction of epinephrines into the to happen. Feel the fear and tension
body which constrict capillaries, before the attack, then block or evade
increase strength and increase speed. like you mean it, like your life depends
________________________________________ on it and counter-attack (eventually at
_ the same time naturally). Takes turns
There are various mental responses to doing this with your partner. Be careful
fear not to get so carried away you hurt him.
________________________________________ Remember it's his turn next.
_ Now from here perform the same mental and
Freezing up. Not being able to move at physical preparedness and move to my one
all though your mind may be telling to step sparring variations you can find in
run, block, fight! my printable ebook Bringing The Martial
Anger. Anger and fear are very closely Artist Out from Within. Continue to
related. A reaction to fear of anger will strike just the air shield for now.
at the very least help you to survive Now put some pads on and remove the air
better than freezing up, but it could shield. Do one step variations again.
also inhibit your thought processes and Same mental stress of a real situation,
get you killed. but strike anywhere and pull the
Trained reaction to fear. Your body technique so you don't hurt your partner.
relaxes, your mind focuses. Adrenaline The combination of striking the air
increases your strength and speed making shield full contact and pulling the
you a very dangerous individual. techniques on your partner when striking
I've personally spent a long time anywhere help prepare you both mentally
studying fear and it's various and physically to strike full contact
physiological and psychological effects anywhere on your attacker, under the
on individuals. I've developed a very stress of a life threatening situation.
good method of dealing and working with _______________________________
the fear response, which directly and Ready to Become More Dangerous?
indirectly over the years has saved my _______________________________
life from avoiding car collisions to Start again with all of your self-defense
defending my life. drills. Emulate your fear for at least 10
________________________________________ seconds to put yourself in a
____________ life-threatening mental attitude.
There are two different ways of training Now consciously relax your muscles. Make
to use fear. your breathing slightly faster than
________________________________________ normal to emulate a threat, but make it
____________ deeper as well as if you were trying to
1. Place yourself in life threatening control rapid breathing.
situations on a regular basis. Now start again and add a mental aspect
This method has the disadvantage of to begin working with your fear and
ending your training career at an early stress. Begin again with your drills and
start. this time take your fear and turn it into
2. Place yourself in life threatening anger. It's not the final solution yet,
situations on a regular basis mentally. but it will give you a better chance of
This method has the advantage of survival than being frozen in place
extending your training career while at solid.
the same time possibly saving your life. Turning fear into anger takes practice,
Many martial artists spend their lives but isn't that hard to accomplish. As I
learning to block and strike. Going said earlier the two emotions are very
through situation after situation. similar. Basically this can be
Attacks from the front attacks from accomplished with an example such as
behind, from the side, multiple this;
attackers. Instead of, "Oh my gosh, this stranger
Some martial artists don't even practice wants to hurt me!"
these scenarios. Assuming the same You change it to something like, "WHAT!?
defensive reaction from the front will THIS SCUMBAG LOWLIFE WANTS TO HURT ME!
work from the side and from attacks from I'LL SHOW THIS !@#$!"
behind. Some martial arts instructors Now add your rapid breathing to this and
when asked "what if" by their students slight muscular tension and remember
will simply say, "just don't put yourself YOU'RE ANGRY!
in that position". If that were the Now do your steps to relax and attempt to
answer there would be no need to take control your breathing while remaining
self-defense at all. Just don't put angry.
yourself in that position. After you can successfully emulate anger
For those martial artists who do practice whenever you want to now take your final
situational self-defense training, many step.
of you are not allowing for the mental Start again with your self-defense
aspect of a physical attack. drills. Follow all of my above steps, but
Mental preparedness for a physical now empty your mind! Void it of emotion.
attack, I believe, is even more important Let your well trained reflexes from
than the physical side of preparing for various scenarios take over guided by
an attack. Why do you think it is that a subtle consciousness and thought. You may
trained martial artist would fear a need to practice a meditation exercise
seasoned street fighter (weird term). for this which you can find in my
Because the street fighter has been in printable ebook Step by Step Learn
real fights. The few tricks he's picked Internal Energy Strikes with the bonus
up to win a street brawl have actually section Taking Strikes and Coming Back
been executed by him under the mental for More.
stress of a life and death situation Most You must be careful not to hurt your
martial artists, fortunately, have not partner during any of these drill phases.
had this misfortune. Don't forget other scenarios as well
___________________________ adding the fear factor to them as well.
My Method of Emulating Fear With shoes
___________________________ Without shoes
Let's look back at the physiological Street clothes on
effects of fear once again. Small spacelarge space
Increased heart rate and respiration are Those of you who have read my printable
two major physiological responses to ebook Solo Martial Arts Drills, when you
fear. do your 10 minute workout, do you always
A tensing of voluntary muscle groups is make sure you have enough room and
another, more so in the untrained everything is out of the way? Always?
individual. Why? Is that the way it will be if a
If you emulate these three physiological burglar enters your home.
responses to fear, you will be on your "Just a minute I have to move this chair"
way to emulating it mentally as well. Do you ever grab a nearby "weapon" (a
So first a slight tension of voluntary shoe, a belt, whatever) and begin using
muscle groups. Now increase your it as part of your training?
breathing. Short shallow breaths are best Think think think.
to emulate this physiological response. The more situations you can think of the
________________________ more you will be ready for as many
Now to The Mental Aspect situations as possible both mentally and
________________________ physically. To a slightly smaller degree,
You need a padded up live partner. For you can also apply your fear training to
this drill I would often take an air your solo drills training as well.
shield and tie it to the front on an __________
advanced student. Conclusion
You need to have enough mental control to __________
remember to strike only the air shield of This training method, when done properly,
your partner. will take a lot out of you. I do not
Now your partner must do some acting as recommend using this method all of the
well. He/She must look both in the face time, but definitely put it in your
and body language as though they intend training schedule and practice the method
to hit you and hurt you. Even emulating on a regular basis.
the foul language you might hear from an






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