Self Defense: Why Most Adults Drop Out of Martial Arts Classes

The most surprising statistic that most karate andand get into a few fights? Should they go hang
martial arts teachers discover is the one that tellsout in the seedier side of town and wait to be
them "why most of their adult students quitmugged, raped, or beaten?No, of course not. But,
shortly after enrolling." In fact, the greatestthey can, like their students, go in search of real
percentage of adult dropouts from martial artsexperts - people who have "been there" and who
classes occurs within the first 100 days!This hascan help them learn what they need to know in
sparked some groups to investigate the reasonsorder to help the people who come to them for
behind this phenomena. Surveys have beenthis type of knowledge.Of course, this may
conducted both in the United States as well as inrequire that they suck in their pride and get a
Canada. Additional inquiries may also have beencheck on the old ego. But, as everyone knows
conducted in places like Europe and Australia aswho has been in an actual violent confrontation
well.What the researchers found was, to them,with a dangerous attacker, you need to "check
incredible. They found that, by and large, theyour ego at the door" if you're going to
number one reason for adult students droppingsurvive.Teaching self-protection skills to others is a
out of their programs was......no real-worldhuge responsibility. And one perhaps that's too
self-defense training early on in their training!"Howgreat for a lot of people who are teaching for
could this be?", was the question. The researcherspurely personal reasons.There is another option
were stunned. After all, they were martial artsavailable, however; just in case the primary one is
teachers and they certainly taught self-defense astotally unacceptable. And that option is simply
a part of their classes.How could these adults sayto......stop trying to teach self-defense if they're
that they weren't being taught real-worldnot qualified.By all means, an instructor can, and
self-defense techniques?Perhaps, the problem wasshould, continue to teach his particular style of
not that "self-defense techniques" were or weremartial art. But he should stop trying to convince
not being taught. Because, even after theseintelligent, grown adults, that he knows what he's
studies were conducted and karate programstalking about with regards to surviving a violent
started to "import" third-party self-defenseattack if he doesn't. He should remember that
packages into their product offering, adultpeople are placing their lives in his hands every
dropouts remained high.Maybe the problem was intime he open's his mouth, or demonstrates a
perception. Maybe students just couldn't see howtechnique. I'm not sure whether or not many
the "stylized" movements of a centuries-oldinstructors have thought about this. But they
system could be applicable against a street attackshould.After all, most martial arts instructors teach
against a stiletto or 'Saturday Nighthonesty as one of the major tenets and
Special'-wielding assailant.It's certain that studentscharacter traits of a black belt master and leader.
were not seeing and hearing what they thoughtWouldn't this be the "honest" thing to do?The
they should in order to believe that they weremoral here is that, if a martial arts or karate
getting what they needed to survive such anteacher wishes to teach self-defense - if he or
attack. Even if these students don't know whatshe wants to get and retain adult students looking
'that thing' really looks like, their gut-level feelingfor this type of training for the long-term, they
was that, "this stuff isn't going to work."Maybereally have no choice but to do what they
the problem - what adult students are looking formust.They, like every other information-based
- is in something even more crucial to learningprofessional, are in business to provide a service.
self-defense against violent attackers. And maybeThey must decide what that service is and
this "thing" was easier to identify by novices thanwhether or not it includes real-world
by trained instructors who had been indoctrinatedself-protection against violent attackers who don't
into sport systems.Maybe what was lacking in allfollow the rules of fairness and respect found in
of these programs was something the realmartial arts schools and karate tournaments.They
experts like to call......Experience!Regardless of theshould also know this......no company, whether it's a
subject, it's fairly easy to see when someone hasfurniture store or a martial art school, stays
experience with the information they have, isn'tin-business very long if it can't give its customers
it? I mean, experience in actually applying thatwhat they want and need. Their clients and
information to produce viable, proven results. Asstudents may never tell them that they don't
the old saying goes, "those who can - do; andbelieve or trust them. But, rest assured that if
those who can't - teach."And, what adult studentsthey're not getting what they've paid for, they're
are looking for is someone who "can" ANDgone.As a final thought, and one that I live by.
"teaches" others how they can as well.Now, thisWhat if, some day, "I" must depend on one of
isn't to say that most martial arts instructorsmy students to protect me from a dangerous
don't know their arts and the techniques and skillsassailant for whatever reason. Wouldn't I want to
that come with them. Most certainly do. Andmake sure that what he or she learned was really
these people are very good at what theygoing to work?I know I would!Jeffrey M. Miller is
do.However; there is a huge difference betweenthe founder of Warrior Concepts International, a
knowing how to 'perform' a skill - any skill - andPennsylvania-based company specializing in helping
being able to apply that skill in a particular context.private, law enforcement, and corporate clients to
And self-defense is no exception.No matter howdevelop time-tested and proven self-protection
hard they try, most martial arts and self-defenseand personal development skills that work in the
instructors will not be able to convince mostreal-world. He is the author of the highly
adults that they know what they're talking aboutacclaimed, educational video, Danger Prevention
without the experience to back it up. AdultTactics. His latest book, "The Karate-Myth" shows
students are not children. They have seen far toothe reader why most martial arts and
much in there lives to let these less-than-ableself-defense programs don't work and how to
instructors slide.And with the new threat ofinsure your safety in today's violent world. For
terrorism being added to the ever-presentadditonal information about having this
concern with crime, most adults have no desire tointernationally-recognized expert as a guest or
learn martial arts for purely ascetic reasons. Theykeynote speaker for your organization's next
want - no, they demand - and rightly so, that themeeting, or to sponsor a seminar with Mr. Miller,
person they place their trust in, not to mentionyou may contact him through his web site or by
their very lives, knows what he or she is doing.So,calling WCI in the U.S. and Canada, at (570)
what's an instructor to do if he or she lacks actual988-2228.
real-world experience? Should they rush right out