Warning - You May Have Black Belt Eyes

Has a spouse or significant other made awith pictures of your happy students. It's OK to
suggestion about your martial arts school or howhave a shot of yourself; just make sure it's
you teach? What was your reaction? I knowtasteful and professionally shot. Media coverage,
mine was essentially 'Who the heck are you to tellsuch as magazine covers or newspaper articles,
me, the black belt, about martial arts?' The key,are also fine. Tip: If you are on a TV show, have
though, is:someone take a photo that includes the cameras.
They don't care about martial arts; they careThis is a good way to get mileage out of a TV
about you. They usually represent Market Eyes,appearance. You can't post a video on your wall,
and they are almost always right.but this type of photo shows you were on a TV
In a previous article, I introduced the concept ofshow. Media appearances build confidence in
"Black Belt Eyes" and how they are based onstudents and prospects. Photos of you breaking
false assumptions and often get in the way offlaming bricks don't.
our more useful "Market Eyes". Market Eyes could10. Having a smelly school.
represent the eyes of a potential student whoThis could be called Black Belt Nose. When
doesn't know a black belt from a green belt butprospects walked into my school, their eyes
has a willingness to learn.watered and their faces contorted from the
Other examples of Black Belt Eyes include:sweaty stench soaked into our carpet. I used to
1. Using your style name as a headline or, worse,tell them with pride, "We earned that smell..." Not
a school name.good.
This is a huge assumption that the reader or11. Sparring too soon.
prospect knows how your style or techniqueBlack Belt Eyes say, "Sparring prepares you for
translates to benefits for them.self defense." Market Eyes say, "That's scary, and
2. Using a logo that looks like martial artsit hurts." Few things lead to high dropouts faster
hieroglyphics.than sparring. Sparring is important, and I love it.
If your logo contains a fist, a yin-yang, a circle, aBut the smartest curriculum adjustment I ever
triangle, Asian lettering, or a bug, you may havemade was to push back the time when students
Black Belt Eyes.had to spar. Rather than after three months,
3. Listing techniques instead of benefits in yourwhich was how I was raised, it became eight
black belt marketing.months. During those eight months, we work on
This may disappoint you, but the odds arelimited sparring drills and defense and prepare the
miniscule that someone seeing an ad that toutsstudents how to spar before they are thrown in
Hun Gar 3 Step Waza will exclaim to his wife,the ring.
"Honey! Hun Gar 3 Step Waza! Just what I'veI made the change after years of having the
always wanted!" Only your Black Belt Eyes willfollowing scenario played out too often. Typically,
know what that means. I don't even know whata female student would enroll and soon become
it means.an A student. She was in every class. She was at
4. Confusing your wins as benefits.every function. She volunteered to help. She
Black Belt Eyes assume people want to knowchanged her work hours or made changes in her
that you are an accomplished black belt. It's notlife to make sure she could do karate.
that no one cares, as much as that listing yourThis lasted for three months until she reached the
tournament wins, hall of fame inductions, or thatrank where sparring was required. Then I wouldn't
you trained the military police simply don'tsee her again until I ran into her at the mall or a
translate into benefits for potential students. Mikerestaurant. "Sally! Nice to see you. We sure miss
Tyson is a great boxer, but I don't want himyou in class." "Oh, um, hi, Mr. Graden. I've been
teaching my kids. Study the ads for privatereally busy lately. Gotta go."
schools. They don't list the teachers' resumes.If I had a Truth Translator, the real message
Market Eyes want to know what you can do forwould be, "I trusted you. I really trusted you and
them or their children.embraced your school into my life. Then you put
5. Having long classes.me up against that guy, and I had no idea what
The assumption is that more is better. The truthto do. He hit me on my nose, and it hurt. I will not
is that better is better. If more were better, atrust you again." When I tell this story in seminars,
four-hour class would be better than a two-hourthe classic Black Belt Eyes vs Market Eyes
class. People are busy, and it's presumptuous toexchange reveals itself, as the owners' wives and
assume that your class is so important it has togirlfriends elbow them in the ribs. "I told you!"
take two hours of their day. Most people have 16Some guys argue that sparring is important. I
waking hours per day. Two hours is more than 10agree. However, how can you teach sparring to
percent of that day. Good instructors can teach asomeone who drops out?
great class and produce outstanding black beltsToday, people - especially women - are taught
using one-hour classes. If your classes are longernever to hit someone. We have to be patient and
than this, reduce them to one hour. Your studentshelp them get comfortable with the idea of hitting
will not complain. They will thank you.and getting hit. We have to give them strategies
6. Keeping archaic exam requirements that areto get out of the way of a bigger, faster
important to you, not the student.opponent and, most of all, we have to drill them
When I was a student, for part of your brownover and over so they are ready to spar when
belt exam you had to break two boards with athey reach that level.
reverse punch, round kick two boards, and do a12. Setting heavy traditional requirements in the
running jump side kick over two people to breakfirst year.
three boards. This was for the blue belt to fourthIf your white belt class consists of traditional
degree (kyu or kup) brown belt and usuallystances, blocks, and forms, you are going to have
occurred about a year into training. I opened mya tough time keeping students. Give your
school with the same requirements.students material they can use right away.
When the children's invasion began in theWe pushed all of our traditional tae kwon do
mid-1980s, those requirements became a realtechniques back to green belt. White, gold, and
problem. Eight- and 10 year olds have no businessorange belt were spent on working on pad drills,
doing those types of breaks. So I dropped boardpractical self defense, sparring, and footwork drills.
breaking as a requirement and addedThe students loved it. They felt a sense of
board-breaking seminars that the students couldcompetence right away. As important as they
pay to attend. I turned a negative element of theare, the traditional martial arts are very hard to
belt exam process into a fun profit center. Tolearn. By front-loading your curriculum with your
accomplish this, I had to overcome my Black Beltcore traditional material, you put some of the
Eyes.most difficult techniques to learn with your most
7. Conducting marathon exams.inexperienced students.
During the days of my marathon SaturdayThis is especially true for children. Forms were
exams, it seemed as though we measured thecreated by highly disciplined adults to be taught to
quality of an exam by the number of ambulanceother highly disciplined adults. They were not
calls. I thought it was important for students todesigned to be taught to eight-year old kids with
deal with the stress of the high-pressure,ADHD.
marathon exams because it would help them dealTeaching a new student a front stance and then
with the stress of self defense... which is justtrying to layer on a down block-lunge punch is not
dumb. I also waited until enough people wereonly hard, but you almost have to apologize for
ready before I held the exam. This is classic Blackthe lack of practicality. We say things like, "You
Belt Eyes combined with the Control Factor. Inwould never really block this way, but this is a
time, I switched to monthly exams (stripes andblock against a kick to the groin." That, my friend,
belts) that were held in class. This greatlyare Black Belt Eyes in action.
increased retention and student progress - and13. Having too many "shoulds" in your curriculum.
reduced stress.It's natural for a new school owner to have
8. Displaying weapons on the wall or in the office.dreams of creating a great martial arts school. He
You may love weapons but, to the market, a walldreams that his black belts will be the best, and
full of knives, swords, and spears looks like apeople will flock to his school. When this
weapons cache. Mothers in particular do notenterprising black belt sits down to design the
respond well to the prospects of their darling childultimate curriculum, he thinks to himself, "Hmmm.
being exposed to these instruments of death.My students should learn the traditional basics.
9. Displaying photos of yourself hitting, getting hit,They should be able to do a form or two each
or breaking.belt. They should know the basic traditional
One school had a photo of the instructor beingstances and blocks. They should be able to do all
front kicked, full power, in the groin. His Black Beltthe kicks and punches. They should learn some
Eyes felt that the photo showed he couldself defense. They should be able to do one-steps
withstand any blow. My Market Eyes made meand spar as well."
wince and turn away. There is nothing interesting,Do any of these sound like you? Then you may
appealing, or tasteful about such a photo. Takebe guilty of black belt eyes.
down the 1989 photos of you, and replace them