The Tao Of Success -- What Kung-Fu Taught Me

In the late 1980s I studied kung-fu in Omaha.Hustle."
Lower-ranking students like me enjoyed workingPete Rose is the embodiment of persistence. He
out with one particular black sash. Bob woulddidn't need the most talent. He showed up, had a
answer our questions about what differentgoal, and gave it everything he had.
moves meant for self-defense. He could show aIn the dozen or so years since I began teaching
flowery movement and then teach us three orkung-fu, many students have joined my classes.
four powerful techniques that we couldn't seeOnly one has made it to black sash and one more
hidden within -- movements that could break anwill make it during the coming year. When many
attacker in an instant.students see that it isn't like a kung-fu movie and
I was amazed at the depth of his knowledge.it takes many years to develop skill, they drop
How did he become so good that he could see soout. Other students have a deep love for kung-fu
deeply into these flowery kung-fu movements?but life, work, girlfriends and spouses distract
The years passed and I continued to study.them. Only a very few have the persistence to
Sometimes, I would begin learning a long series ofmake it to black sash. And then they learn that
movements known as a "form" (often calledthey've only just begun. The real learning comes
"kata"). These forms could include up to 100after they reach black sash.
movements and take 12 or 13 minutes toEven in the Chen Village, the birthplace of Tai Chi,
perform. Each time I would begin on the firstMaster Chen Bing says that among the Chinese
movement, it seemed that I would never get tostudents who study the art, only one in 100
the end.persist long enough to achieve real skill.
But one step at a time -- one movement at aRemember the old joke -- how do you eat an
time -- suddenly the end of the form arrived andelephant? The answer -- one bite at a time. It
I had learned a new one.may be a joke, but the message is clear.
A couple of years ago, I released a series ofPersistence is the most important skill for success
DVDs on tai chi fighting applications, looking deeperin life or in the martial arts.
than any videos have ever gone into theIn 2008, I lost my job. Budget cuts, they said. I
self-defense techniques hidden in a tai chi form.went home and told my wonderful wife, Nancy,
Now, students were wondering how I learned allthat I was tired of working for people I couldn't
that; how I got to the point that I could see sotrust. I wanted to launch an online kung-fu school.
deeply into the art."Go for it," she said.
The answer is simple -- persistence.I started with nothing -- reserved the domain
Woody Allen once said that 90% of success isname, planned what I would want if I were
just showing up. It might be a little morestudying online, and I began videotaping lessons.
complicated than that, but he was on target. YouPeople raised their eyebrows when I told them
can have all the ability in the world, but that'swhat I was doing. "How can that work?" they
useless if you don't have the ability to persist untiloften asked.
you meet your goals.Three very intense months later, I launched the
Set a goal and don't let anything stop you fromonline school. That was almost two years ago,
getting there. Just take it one step at a time.and I have nearly 400 video lessons on the site,
Work at it and don't quit. Before you know it, youplus e-books and other material, and I have
will have achieved something great.members around the world who pay a monthly
Look at any Olympic athlete -- someone likefee to study online.
Lindsey Vonn. Consider the hard work it took herI had a dream -- a goal -- and I persisted one
to become a gold medalist. Consider the injurieslesson at a time. I'm still persisting, too, and also
she overcame, the crashes, and even the weekstudying and learning new material to advance my
that she won the gold she was enduring anskills so that I can pass it along to my students.
intensely painful shin bruise.Woody Allen was right. I showed up every day
She could have given up but she persisted alland worked on my goal. And just like learning a
along the way and she achieved her dreams.long kung-fu form or eating an elephant, I
When I was growing up, my favorite baseballknocked out one lesson at a time. It grew and
player was Pete Rose. I watched him play manygrew.
times in Cincinnati, and I was there the night heIt doesn't matter if your goal is work-related,
broke Ty Cobb's record for hits. Pete was notfamily-related, or success-related. Set the goal,
the most gifted athlete. He wasn't the biggest,map out the actions it will take to get there, and
the fastest, or the strongest. But he waspersist. Don't let anyone or anything stop you
determined to be the best. He practiced hittingfrom taking one step at a time.
after others had gone home. He got to theIf you do this, you can achieve anything, including
ballpark early to practice. When he was walked,a black sash.
he ran to first base. They called him "Charlie