Self Defense Training to Gain Fighting Experience Without Fighting

A question that I commonly hear is howhappened and hearing my comments, they will
someone can get experience in fighting withoutlearn to recognize the critical point of street
actually going out and getting mugged or intoattacks, where the survivor was determined and
street fights.be aware of the mistakes that the unsuccessful
Well, most traditional martial artists and modernparticipant made which insured his failure. Because
sport fighters would say that you need to spar,the critical mistakes were usually either in
"in order to be hit and learn to hit."situational awareness or tactics, my students will
My problem with that is, first of all, that youautomatically be better prepared to avoid them
shouldn't concentrate on learning to be hit,and position themselves to survive, BEFORE being
because, as I have often said, the first person toattacked.
land a strike in a real street attack tends to winSure, the clip of the girl flooring the bouncer with
the fight. Either it immediately takes the persona headbut and the defensive tactics trainer
hit out of the fight or at least stuns him longknocking out the pimp with one blow were
enough to allow the attacker to follow-up withexamples of how powerful techniques to fragile
finishing blows while the hit person cannot defendtargets could allow even a "Davey" to defeat a
himself effectively, so training to "take punches" is"Goliath," but that's not what really won the fights.
akin to training for failure.The deciding factor in both clips was the fact that
The other problem that I have with sparring thatthe aggressors underestimated the person
I will mention now (believe me, I have plenty ofstanding in front of them and this lapse in
problems with using sport-oriented sparring in selfsituational awareness is what lost them fights
defense training, but that's a topic in itself) is thatagainst weaker, "less-formidable" opponents.
it will "train" you to "practice" very bad situationalBecause they did not assume good,
awareness. That means that sparring will actuallynon-threatening ready postures, they were totally
condition you to wait and first defend yourselfunprepared and unsuspecting when the
after some referee has made sure that both youpre-emptive strikes came, which resulted in them
and your opponent are ready and gives you thebeing unconscious before they even knew that
signal to fight. This is very bad, because it isthey were hit.
usually the lack of situational awareness thatBelieve me, case studies and mental training are a
causes people, especially good sport fighters tolarge part of what I teach and have definitely
lose fights on the street.improved the ability of my students to learn to
For instance, I'm always sending case studies offight to survive inside of a very short period of
video clips to my students to study. By watchingtime.
videos of examples of what has already