5 Steps to Choosing the Right Martial Art for You

One of the questions I get asked mostabsolute nor inclusive. Many would rightfully
frequently, in several different variations is aboutdisagree with where I have placed things on the
which martial art an individual should study.list, but this is meant to be a general guideline.
Generally which martial art, and more importantlyAgain, every single teacher in every different
which school to choose are fundamental decisionsschool is going to be different. This is meant as a
someone should make. My answer is usuallystarting point:
something along the lines of, "choose the school-Formal
and the system that you are going to stick with- Kendo / Kumdo
and stay with it for the rest of your life."- Aikido
The reality is that the answer is going to be- Tae Kwon Do
different for every person. What I will attempt to- Karate
do in this article is give you a set of general- Jujutsu
guidelines. I will talk in very broad terms about- Kung Fu
different martial arts, and what to look for in a- Silat
school. Ultimately every teacher, at every school,- Ninjutsu
in every system is going to be completely- Tai Chi / Bagua / Hsing-yi
different.- Arnis / Kali / Escima
1. Dispelling a common myth- Capoeira
Just like with religion and politics, many people- Kickboxing
honestly believe that what they do is the best- Boxing
thing in the world. One only has to make a-Informal
cursory study of the psychological principle ofWhile you're on the web already, it would pay off
cognitive dissonance to see why this is so. Soto do some research. Look up a few sites for a
many schools out there claim to be teaching, "thefew of the styles I have listed here. Get some
ultimate, deadliest, most secret, guarded systemgeneral information about focus and formality. See
of self defense ever invented by the gods ofwhat strikes you as interesting. Make a small list
combat." To be quite blunt - they are full of crap.of styles you might be interested in pursuing.
In one respect, much of this stuff is a marketing4. Practical Issues
stance. Heck, everybody wants to study the bestOK, now you've done some soul searching and
thing in the world. If such a thing existedsome research and you have a list of styles you
everybody would study it. Some martial artsmight be interested in learning. Now we have to
schools can become very cult like as well, and thistalk a little bit about lifestyle. If Kendo interests
is where the cognitive dissonance comes in. Theyou, but the nearest school is 200 miles away - it
practitioners actually believe their marketing stuff.may not be a practical choice.
The truth is that style is not going to fight forYou can certainly look through your yellow pages
you - you are. Every person is different andto find schools close to you or ask people you
there is not one best system for everyone. Itknow if they know of any schools. A word to the
would be quite scary for me to face a sumowise: friends will always try to get you to come
wrestler in combat, but it would also be silly forto their school and may get offended of you
me to expect to take up Sumo and be good at it.don't or if you visit and then don't want to sign
Claims of superior systems that can make you asup. That's definitely something to consider.
deadly as a Navy SEAL in 24 hours also stemSome practical things to consider are school
from American culture. It is unfortunate that welocation and proximity to home / work, costs and
of the MTV and Internet generation are alwaysyour ability to pay dues and other fees, class
looking for a shortcut, a quick fix. It makes manyschedule and how it fits into your schedule. Other
of us miss a lot of very valuable and importantthings may also be important to you like parking,
stuff.and facilities - write them down.
2. Let's start with youYou should narrow down your potential list of
If I can help you answer a few key questionsschools based on your criteria, but you should still
about yourself and your interests, you will haveplan on visiting more than one to give you a
done most of the work toward picking out asense of comparison.
martial arts school that is best for you.5. Choosing a school
First and foremost, what do you want to get outThe following are a list of things I suggest you
of martial arts training? Yes, yes, I know youlook for when choosing a school or instructor. To
want to learn self defense - put that on the list.me, these factors are more important than any
But people study martial arts for a variety ofother of the above factors and can make or
reasons. You want to get some exercise, youbreak your martial arts experience.oWhen you call
want to meet new people, you want to get rid ofthe school, are all your questions answered, and
stress, you want a new hobby, and you think theanswered honestly? Sometimes someone will
uniforms look cool. Really think about it and writeanswer the phone that may not be able to
down your reasons. Everything is valid and youranswer all your questions. They should pass you
reasons are your own. Then I would prioritizeon to someone who can , or have someone call
your reasons - which ones are more importantyou back.oEvery school out there should offer at
than others. Maybe getting into shape is yourleast one free trial class before you sign up. How
main goal - if so, that may help determine a placeelse can you determine if you want to study
to study.there? Your best bet is to try out several
3. What style?different schools to give you some
Now, let's talk a little bit about systems or styles.comparison.oWhen you visit the school, is the
A system is just the type of martial art you willpractice safe, or are students allowed to train in
be studying like Karate, Kendo, or Kung Fu. Thedangerous ways or without proper supervision?oIs
differences between styles may also help you tothe school itself hygienic and free from unsafe
determine where to look.conditions?oDo students and teachers show
The main difference between most martial artsrespect toward everyone? This extends beyond
style is focus. Some arts like Tae Kwon do focusformal bowing and address to making sure
on large kicking movements, while others - likeeveryone is learning and nobody is being
Kendo focus on a particular weapon. Body typeabused.oBe prepared that many schools these
and interest (as we discussed before) will help youdays require a contract like a health club. Make
think a little about style focus. For example: I amsure you are clear on the terms of the contract
built like a fireplug - short and wide, am somewhatif you do decide to sign one, and do not be afraid
slow and am very interested in the self defenseto walk out if you are uncomfortable with the
aspect of training. Ketsugo Jujutsu turned out toterms.oBe very wary of cult-like schools that try
be the best style for me as it focused onto up-sell you to intensified black belt programs
unbalancing the opponent, the kicks were low toand the like. While some of these may be
the ground, and the fighting in close where welegitimate, there are many scam artists in black
short guys excel.belts out there. You should be very clear about
Beyond focus is a scale of formality to informality.what you are paying for up front.oDo the teacher
To me formality is a measure of emphasis onand senior students display a lot of skill in the art
things like training etiquette, ceremony, style ofthey are teaching? This may be hard to
dress, method of addressing seniors etc. Manydetermine since great martial artists are often
Japanese and Korean styles are very formal. Onvery subtle. However, the teacher and students
the far end of the informal scale you might haveshould display knowledge, skill, and balance which
a cardio kickboxing class at local gym. On the farmight be more obvious.oMost importantly, trust
end of the formal scale you might have a styleyour instincts. If something about the school
like Kendo which places a lot of emphasis ondoesn't sit right with you, then it probably isn't
appearance and etiquette.right. Look out for the fast talking salesman who
Neither formal nor informal is better or worse; ittries to sweep your concerns under the rug.
is a matter of preference. I personally enjoyRemember that choosing the right teacher and
some of the formalities of traditional Japanesethe right school is more important than the actual
martial arts. For me they build character andstyle. If you choose a school that you enjoy,
shape a strong state of mind that carries overstudy with a teacher you like, and train with
into day to day life. For others, the formalitiesstudents that inspire you - you are likely to stick
may be difficult to grasp and they may wish forwith your martial art. The longer you stick with it
something less formal.- the better you'll get. Hopefully you will discover a
The following is a list of styles I have arrangedvery positive lifelong journey that will shower
from most to least formal. This arrangement ishidden benefits on you as my martial art has
from my own best knowledge and is neitherupon me.